Breaking Up: 7 Strategies to end it for Good – 7. Pretend They’re Dead

Written by Heidi Rain

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February 8, 2019

Being in a relationship of any kind with an addict or alcoholic causes an emotional, physical, and psychological rollercoaster. It’s crucial that you have BOUNDARIES! My latest on demand master mini course lays the foundation of how to set and hold a boundary with an addict. You will get the exact step by step formula and the insight, wisdom, and guidance you need to set a boundary and FOLLOW THROUGH.

Learn:

  • Why boundaries fail
  • Common boundary mistakes with an addict or alcoholic
  • How to get massive clarity around what you want, deserve, and are no longer    willing to tolerate.
  • How to communicate with clarity, empathy, and strength.
  • How to follow through
  • The exact language to use with an addict or alcoholic
  • How to stop being manipulated, gaslit, and guilted out of your boundaries
  • How to create a healthy, peaceful environment for you and your family.

OMG. Have I lost my mind? How morbid! How terrible! How final!

Yes. Exactly.

Now my love, you have a chance to morn the loss and move on.

The reason we don’t heal is that we don’t grieve, because you can’t grieve what’s still alive.

So, if the relationship is dead, you can burry it and mourn the loss.

And yes, you will be tempted to resurrect it.

But think about that movie Pet Cemetery. We all know what happened when Gage came back to life.

I couldn’t stand in front of my bed with my heels facing under for an entire year.

Nothing good comes back from the dead except Jesus. And you and I know your ex didn’t walk on water.

So, “ladies and gentlemen, we are gathered here today to morn the loss of the idea that this relationship was going to be last forever.”

Watch the video to hear the people say Amen.

I hope you have found this series helpful

And if you still need help, let’s work together. Send me an email and let’s chat.

Love you,

Heidi

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