by heidimcguirk | Jan 26, 2021 | Advice
There’s a funny portrayal of the clinger personality in the movie Wedding Crashers. The lead character attracts the affection of a young woman who comes on strong and never stops. She throws herself at him, uses her sexuality to enchant him and demands her be a couple...
by heidimcguirk | Jan 19, 2021 | Advice
Let’s talk about the Attachment Personality of the Victim. Firstly, what is an attachment personality pattern? When you’re born into a family Dynamic particularly one that is dysfunctional. toxic, abusive, or addicted, you start scrambling and hustling to try to...
by heidimcguirk | Jan 12, 2021 | Advice
5 Core traits of a FIXER Attachment Personality Pattern: Overcoming codependency When I was a little girl, right in my back yard was a tall tree. It was just the right tree for climbing into, settling into a little windy branch, and pretending to be in my invisible...
by heidimcguirk | Jan 5, 2021 | Advice
The controlling Attachment Personality Pattern Most of the articles you read about a controlling person will actually be describing an abusive person. And that’s simply because all abusive people are controlling. But the fact is, all controlling people aren’t abusive....
by heidimcguirk | Dec 30, 2020 | Advice
How withholding sabotages intimacy and prevents you from having the relationships you want. When we are born into a family of dysfunction, we find a way to function. We develop a way of being that allows us to survive, thrive, connect, or cope. I call these...
by heidimcguirk | Dec 23, 2020 | Advice
Do you have a tape in your head that never shuts up, always telling you how you’re screwing up? Does it judge you without mercy, constantly comparing you to others and reminding you of your limits, deficiencies, and inadequacies? The relationship that has the...
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