Are your relationships causing you

anxiety, resentment, confusion or pain?

Do everyone else’s needs come before your own? Is being last on the list taking a toll on you?

Are you ready for YOUR TURN?

Has all that settling and sucking it up created resentment?

Do you struggle for balance in your relationships?

Do you long for a true partner, someone who will be there for you the way you’re there for everyone else?

Is your motto of  “suck it up buttercup” costing you authentic happiness.

Are you tired of pretending? Do you put on a happy face and say you’re FINE, but you’re not.

Do you try and control everything and it’s creating anxiety, worry, overwhelm and exhaustion?

Do you give too much? Are you attracting takers?

Do you believe the only one you can count on is you? 

Do you sit on your truth?

Though you may know you need to leave a bad situation, do you stay for too long?


Answering yes to even one of those

questions means it’s time for a change..

 And it all starts with Learning to Love Yourself First.

 When you practice self love, anything is possible.

 Most people confuse self-love with self-care. I’m not talking about bath bombs here. The truth is, there aren’t enough bath bombs and gym memberships in the world to compensate for a deep seated feeling of inadequacy.

 When I speak of learning to love yourself First, I’m talking about TRUE Empowerment.

I created a systematic approach to healing all your dysfunctional  behavior that prevents you from being who you were born to be and having the relationships you deserve.


LYFE School is a complete self-love system designed to fix your dysfunctional relationships, overcome codependency and create the life you deserve.

End all confusion and Get clear on what you really want


 In LYFE School. we get crystal clear on what you really want. We’ll create a vision for your life, the way you want it. Then, we’ll systematically remove any barriers along the way preventing you from having the life and relationships you truly deserve. Be authentically happy. No more faking it. Ever again.


Learn to speak your truth

Inside LYFE School, you’ll get the exact language to use in difficult conversations. You’ll learn how to set and hold boundaries and become a force of nature, protecting  the new sacred space of self love you’ve created.


Figure out who you really are

 Here’s the truth: You’ve been who you’ve needed to be, not who you truly are. In LYFE School you’ll learn my 8 different personality patterns and identify the “role” you’ve been playing. Then, we will uncover the REAL YOU. We’ll get rid of the masks you’ve been wearing and uncover your true beauty, radiating inside, waiting to shine. 


raise your standards and Never settle again

 What would life be like if you had NOTHING TO PROVE?

 Together, we’ll eradicate any stories of unworthiness and rip them up by the root. You’ll leave LYFE School knowing your true value and get the absolute clarity you need to make the RIGHT decision for you.


Heal from the past. Let t go.

 When you complete this course, you’ll have participated in my revolutionary process called “The Rapid Transformation Method” that transforms pain into purpose. You’ll finally be able to make sense out of the things that have happened, reframe them for your good and move on! Break up with what’s not working and never look back


 Become the most powerful version of you

You will be CENTERED, STRONG, CONFIDENT, and SECURE in yourself. Even the most difficult people in your life will become easy to navigate once you apply my methodology and strategies.


LYFE School is a comprehensive online program with a world class support system .

Heidi has developed an amazing program with LYFE School.  With 7 simple and succinct life lessons, anyone can be taught how to, literally, change your life.  The program and process easily transcends any kind of life issues and can be applied to persons who are willing and ready to make important, and often necessary, life changes.

For lack of a better way of saying it, I have always been in awe of Heidi.  Her style and expertise is brilliant.  Her knowledge about personal struggles and how to help change your personal story is unparalleled.  And, her efficacy is a true testament to the power of her program which teaches one how to survive and overcome.  Just ask any of her students.


Meagan Gaine, MSW, LCSW, LICSW

I just can’t thank you enough for opening up my heart. The way you teach is dynamic, creative, and fun. Thank you so much for your time, love, and encouragement. Jane C.

How LYFE SChool works

SCHOOL is broken down into 3 parts.

Part 1: Know yourself

During these classes, Heidi will teach you about your particular behavior patterns.

You’ll learn the point of origin for your codependency 

You’ll understand your unique Attachment Personality Pattern 

You’ll be given the specific action steps, tools, techniques and strategies to break free.

Part 2: Be yourself

During these classes, , Heidi will teach you her 7 Sacred Self Love Vows that will enable you to BE your true self.

You’ll learn how to release the past with her revolutionary 7 step process called RTM (Rapid Transformation Method)

You’ll learn your particular Unconscious Relationship Rules and replace them with new ways of BEing

Part 3 Love yourself

During these classes, Heidi will give you step by step strategies and tools to speak your truth,

You’ll learn to set boundaries and communicate more effectively.

You’ll gain tremendous insight into your needs and desires.

You’ll be given a blueprint for living a life if fulfillment through Self love.



“Heidi, when I met you, little did I know the impact you would have on me.  You showed me how to love myself and because of that, I know how to love others. You taught me self respect and how to effectively communicate in relationships. You are dynamic, energetic, and hilarious! You have such a unique way of teaching your lessons. I’ve learned so much from you. I love you, Heidi. Thank you for everything.”

Patricia M.

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