What would you do if you truly loved yourself?

If you knew your value, what would you do?

If you believed in yourself, what would you go for?

If you had nothing to prove, what would you leave behind?

These are the questions we want to get to the bottom of in LYFE School where we learn to EMBODY Loving Yourself First.

The truth is, most people confuse self love with self care. But the reality is, there aren’t enough bath bombs in the world to cover up a deep seeded feeling of unworthiness or inadequacy.

The thing is, you DO know how to be successful! 

In fact, you’re successful at most things except the thing that matters most- loving yourself first.

One of your biggest areas of struggle is putting yourself first. Everyone else’s needs come before your own and being last on the list is finally taking a toll on you.  All you really want is to finally have YOUR TURN.

In the mean time, all that settling and sucking it up created a ticking time bomb and You become self destructive or you self-sabotage locked in a pattern of success and failure, black and white, all or nothing. 

You struggle for balance in your relationships. You want a partner. A true partner, not someone you have to take care of or who ends up hurting, leaving or using you. You want to believe in love, but sometimes you worry it’s too late.

You self medicate (shop, eat, drink). You promised yourself you wouldn’t end up like them, but your behavior is starting to worry you. 

Your motto of  “suck it up buttercup” is costing you authentic happiness. You put on a happy face and say you’re FINE, but you’re not fine and you’re tired of pretending.

You people please, try and control everything, compete with others or try to be perfect and it’s creating anxiety or depression.

You give. You’re used to giving and attracting takers. Many times you believe the only one you can count on is you. You give and give, but it’s hard to receive.

Because you are adept at taking care of everyone else, your self-sacrificing leads to your needs going to the wayside. Sometimes, you can get to the point when you let yourself go for so long that you feel like imploding exploding running. Or numbing.

You sit on your truth. Though you may know you need to leave a bad situation, you stay for too long

You compare yourself to others, compete, and judge yourself without mercy. At the end of the day, you never feel like you’re enough.

Am I getting you? 

you’re in the right place.

Because, When you enroll in LYFE SCHOOL you get to…

Stop self destructing for good and finally finish what you start!

Overcome a sad, hurtful, or dysfunctional past.

Learn how to forgive people that have hurt you.

Uncover the real you.

Break up with what’s not working and never look back

Be authentically happy. No more faking it. Ever again.

Deepen, renew, or find your faith in yourself and others

Create unstoppable self esteem and courage

Forgive what needs forgiving. Heal. Move on. Let it go.

Create amazing relationships

  

How does a lack of self love show up?

Let’s get real. A Lack of love doesn’t show up how most of us think. From the outside looking in, things could appear pretty good! Especially if you’re used to putting on a happy face, being FINE, or sucking it up…buttercup.  But inside, you know something has to change. It’s finally YOUR time to live the life YOU really want!

It’s time to stop settling in that relationship or job, hoping things will change.

It’s time to stop keeping people at an arms length and learn to receive and allow.

It’s time to stop self destructing behind closed doors. Or shooting down your dreams before you have a chance to go after them.

How is this program different?

Here are the facts. You think no one gets you. And that’s partly true because you have very specific problems that most people don’t understand. You’re a complex person. You’ve been through a lot in your life.You’re an overcomer. You’re a survivor.

And although that’s incredible, it’s also left you with some significant challenges.

In fact, you have a hard time putting yourself first. Maybe you’ve even heard “You need to learn how to love yourself”, and you totally get that! But just as you decide to do that, you don’t know where to start.

The reality is…

You need a strategy that goes beyond the fluff and gets to the heart of what’s going on with you.

I created this program after facilitating over 1700 groups at one of the world’s leading drug and alcohol treatment centers.

There, I had a chance to coach thousands of clients on healthy relationships, self esteem, family issues, and love. Each week, the same issues would arise. Patterns in behavior became clear. There were specific ways clients were creating barriers to true happiness.

I created the Love YourSelf First Embodiment School as a way to walk beside you every step of the way. 

“Heidi, when I met you, little did I know the impact you would have on me.  You showed me how to love myself and because of that, I know how to love others. You taught me respect and how to effectively communicate in relationships. You are dynamic, energetic, and hilarious! You have such a unique way of teaching your lessons. I’ve learned so much from you. I love you, Heidi. Thank you for everything.”

Patricia M.

Do you need to enroll in LYFE SCHOOL and learn to Embody Loving Yourself First?

Trust. It’s a problem for you.

You pick the wrong people You remain Loyal to the wrong people 

You self destruct. Eat, shop, drink, isolate, run

You have anxiety You have low self esteem and it makes you settle

You want to have more confidence

You want to learn how to let peole in

You want to stop pushing people away

You want to shut the tape in your head off that’s always judging.

You want to worry less what others think

You want to stop being codependent

You’re ready to stop comparing yourself

You want to move on from the past.

Heal resentments. Let it go. 

You want to attract the RIGHT relationship

You want to stop wasting time You’re ready to be enough

It’s time to get busy uncovering the person you were born to be!

 

This is for you if you’re ready to…

Put an end to your relationship problems once and for all. Set and hold boundaries!

Create the life you’ve always wanted, on your terms!

Walk away from what no longer serves you without feeling guilty about it

Be loved the way YOU want to be loved

Say goodbye to feelings of inadequacy

Stop worrying and be in total control of your destiny

Rid yourself of depression or anxiety

Attract only people who see your real value

I am no longer that broken, lonely girl! You have shown me what true unconditional love is and how to love myself. You supported me with tools to rebuild my courage, self-esteem, and confidence. Jennifer T.

I just can’t thank you enough for opening up my heart. The way you teach is dynamic, creative, and fun. Thank you so much for your time, love, and encouragement. Jane C.

I’m Heidi. And I’m going to teach you how to put yourself first for a change…

If you had met me in back in 2008, you would have thought I was a huge success story. As an expert in the Dating and Matchmaking Industry. I was masterful at helping others find love and I was rewarded for it. I was traveling the world, had a six figure income, Louis Vuitton luggage, my own home and a confident exterior. But that wasn’t the whole story.

The truth was, I was in a long term relationship with a man who constantly cheated on me, I was lonely and depressed. I felt unlovable and I used alcohol and food to fill a void.

No one knew what was really going on because I knew how to pretend to be “awesome” and put on a happy face. I was the consummate people pleasing overachiever.

But no amount of success was enough, because somehow, I always felt like I was falling short. I was never enough. I would lay my head on my pillow at night and wonder “Is this life? Is this really all there is?”

All I ever really wanted but never felt like I had was LOVE.

It all came to a head in 2009, when I lost my big money job, ended my relationship and moved back home to my fathers house. I was 35, heartbroken, alone, and desperate to change. I felt like I had wasted enough time and it was now or never to get my shit together…authentically. No more pretending. No more faking it.

And so, I began the journey to Happily Ever After. I had to overcome a lot of problems that were keeping me stuck.

  • I had issues around trying to be perfect all of time
  • I didn’t feel worthy unless I was earning love somehow
  • I didn’t trust anyone
  • I didn’t know how to be vulnerable
  • No one was meeting my expectations, including me
  • I didn’t know how to get my needs met without feeling needy or guilty
  • I didn’t know how to speak up for myself in a way that wasn’t aggressive or passive aggressive
  • I was living in the hurt of past relationships

I noticed there were 7 specific self love vows that developed as I was recovering. Once I healed myself, I started teaching the vows and my PROMISE Method to thousands of people who were trying to recover from their own dysfunction and relationship problems.

LYFE SCHOOL is a systematic approach to learning to love yourself first so you can create the life of your dreams.

It’s a method to heal your dysfunctional relationships and create the life you truly deserve. 

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