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You didn’t sign up for this life.
In fact, you thought you’d won the jackpot those first few months or years. They were wonderful! Smart, capable, kind, loving, and DRIVEN! But now, it feels like you’re losing them. You don’t recognize the person they’ve turned into.
They lie to you, manipulate you, make you feel crazy, delusional, or like you’re asking for too much.
But are you? Aren’t you just asking them to choose you and the life you’ve built?
The lies are getting worse. The sneaking, hiding, and gaslighting are ramping up. You’re starting to wonder if this relationship can be saved.
You rightfully become guarded to try and protect yourself from the hurt. But then, they blame your walls you for their issues.
You wonder how bad it has to get? What does the bottom look like? You fear you will lose it all. But then again, you realize how much you’ve already lost.
So, you decide to take some action and seek support, but no one really gets you and what’s going on. They “help” you feel a little better, yet nothing REALLY changes.
And you cannot tell your most of your friends. To them, your life looks perfect. If only they knew the truth, you’d be mortified.
Until, you reach the crossroads of Stay or Go and finally, we meet.
Welcome home, I’m glad you’re here.
Now we can begin the work. Together we’ll devise the perfect action plan, do everything we can to know you did all you could, and restore your happiness, peace, and sanity.
Together, we WILL CHANGE this scenario. One way or another. I promise.
Heidi Rain, Author, Speaker, Mentor, Strategic Family and Relationship Interventionist, Addiction and Codependency Expert
About Heidi Rain
Heidi Rain, Author, Speaker, Mentor, D. Div, MNLP, MCC, Addiction and Codependency Expert is the creator of Codependent Attachment Personality Patterns and the Rapid Detachment Method. Her books, speaking engagements, courses, and programs specialize in codependency, self-love, dysfunctional/unhealthy relationships, and dealing with addiction in the family. Her goal is to increase awareness of generational dysfunction through codependency education, fostering personal responsibility through masterful coaching, and affecting lasting change by breaking toxic patterns, ending the cycles of dysfunction for good.
Coach Heidi changed my life. I enrolled in the program after coming to the realization that some of my relationships were not healthy ones. I knew I was a good person with a good heart and couldn’t figure out why I kept drawing projects instead of partners. I consider myself an intelligent, professional kind, and loving woman but some of my relationships didn’t reflect who I was, and I couldn’t figure out why. I had to take a good look at myself. Heidi helped me realize because of my dysfunctional abusive childhood, I had become Codependent and had learned how to function in dysfunction. I learned in LYFE school that my personality attachment patterns were the people pleaser and the fixer. As a people pleaser I would sometimes say yes when I really wanted to say no. As the fixer I wanted to be the one that rescued. I was that Wonder Woman all for the sake of LOVE. Love that I was still seeking as a little girl from my mother. LYFE school helped me discover I am worthy of love without any extra, just being who I am is enough. I am enough and my value is priceless. I have learned through LYFE school how to set healthy boundaries and I have learned to see people for who they are regardless of their titles or labels.
I am FREE and I walk in my Freedom without any apologies, but most importantly I have learned how to Love and honor ME.
Grateful for my Angel
Heidi is a wizard at getting to the core of deep rooted issues and helping people navigate a path to self-love and acceptance by breaking unhealthy thoughts and behavior patterns. She was able to help me change my perspective in order for personal growth and I have since incorporated her curriculum into my own practice as a licensed clinical therapist.
Heidi was not only integral in my own treatment but I’ve witnessed her facilitate remarkable change in many people’s lives. Heidi is one of the most relatable life coaches and mentors I’ve ever been involved with and I am proud to call her my friend. Her expertise in relationships, self-worth/love and addictions combined with her personal experience and humor allow her to teach individuals how to truly redefine their belief systems and change dysfunctional thought patterns and behaviors which ultimately lead to lives of fulfillment.
As the director of an intensive co-occurring disorders program, Heidi has allowed me to be more comfortable in using my personal experience as a teaching tool and gain confidence as a leader. I often use her methods and teachings to promote discussion and I make a concerted effort to emulate her ease of connectedness in presentation style.
Heidi’s expertise combined with her ability to exercise change is brilliant and, in my opinion, unparalleled. Her efficacy is a true testament to the powerful work she does. Just ask any of her students.
When I met Heidi I was in a horrible place. Dealing with a fiancé facing addiction and in rehab. She was the one person who would tell me like it was with no filter. She has taught me about co-dependency and learning how to break free from toxic relationships. At my lowest point, she was the hand that reached down to help me pull myself up. I cannot imagine where I would be today had I not met this most amazing soul. She is passionate about her wants to help others. And she is smart beyond her years. I truly feel that you have had to walk in the trenches to understand how to help pull others out. She is beyond one of the most intricate parts of my recovery and I value her as my coach, my confidant, and my friend.