I’m Heidi Rain. Welcome Home.

D.Div, MCC, MNLP Codependency Expert ad Addiction Consultant

As an addiction consultant and a codependency expert, I provide people in toxic, addicted or dysfunctional relationships with laser focused coaching so they know exactly what to do. Let me help you get your life back. 

Being in a relationship of any kind with an addict or alcoholic causes an emotional, physical, and psychological rollercoaster. It’s crucial that you have BOUNDARIES! My latest on demand master mini course lays the foundation of how to set and hold a boundary with an addict. You will get the exact step by step formula and the insight, wisdom, and guidance you need to set a boundary and FOLLOW THROUGH.


  • Why boundaries fail
  • Common boundary mistakes with an addict or alcoholic
  • How to get massive clarity around what you want, deserve, and are no longer    willing to tolerate.
  • How to communicate with clarity, empathy, and strength.
  • How to follow through
  • The exact language to use with an addict or alcoholic
  • How to stop being manipulated, gaslit, and guilted out of your boundaries
  • How to create a healthy, peaceful environment for you and your family.

*When you purchase this course, you will get immediate access. Lessons are released weekly over 4 weeks. Please watch 1 lesson per week and take the entire week to practice the lesson you learned. You will have lifetime access to this course and you’re able to revisit any lesson you wish once all 4 lessons have been unlocked. This is a stand alone course and does not include semi private coaching (like our Addiction and Codependency recovery Course).*

Are you in the Right Place?

  • You are dealing with an addicted, toxic, or dysfunctional person and need to know exactly what to do.
  • You’re the glue, the hero, or the rock in your relationships. You have caseloads instead of relationships. It’s totally unbalanced and you feel unsupported.
  • You’re confused. Should you stay or should you go? Can this relationship work or be saved?
  • You walk on eggshells in your relationships. You work overtime to protect the feelings of others.

and ...

  • You’re trying to fix or change someone. You’re tired of putting up with the behavior you don’t deserve. You want someone to love, respect, and value you.
  • You’re successful. You’ve achieved a lot in your life, but relationships are difficult for you.
  • You’re ready and determined to create a happy, healthy relationship.
  • You want a true partner in life who will put in as much effort as you do.
Helping You Fix Your Complicated Relationships

Unlock the Codependency Code. FREE the TRUE YOU

In my latest book Attachment Personality Patterns, I identify the 8 different Codependency Types and help you understand you and your partner so that you can eradicate toxic, dysfunctional behaviors for good. You’ll gain radical insight into yourself and others. You’ll understand why things are so hard and how to create the ease and flow in your relationships you deserve!

Identify Your Unique Codependency Programming

Learn the hidden dysfunctional and toxic patterns that keep you stuck, struggling, or suffering in your relationships

Understand how the difficult people in your life are programmed

Learn what it takes to break free from these patterns for good

With my revolutionary codependency training you'll Excavate your Authentic Self

Most of us are so busy focusing on others, we don’t know who we truly are. I  help you Find and FREE your True Self.

With my NO FAIL Boundary Formula you'll end guilt, manipulation, and gaslighting

Learn to set and hold your bottom line without the guilt that goes with it.

With my gifts of discernment guiding you, you'll End Relationship Confusion

Finally, answer the question, “Can this relationship be fixed?” once and for all. Know with absolute clarity exactly what you want, need, and deserve.

With my powerful Rapid Detachment Method you'll be set free from emotional and psychological turmoil.

Know your value, claim your worth and stand in your POWER. Release the past and live in the now.  No one will ever have the ability to knock you off your throne or suck you into their drama ever again.

Our world class programs specialize in Dealing with Addiction in the Family and Codependency,Toxic Relationship Recovery.

We are on a mission to teach you how to deal with an addicted loved one and how to recover from the relationship trauma that has left you drained, numb, resentful, perplexed, anxious or hurt.

Throughout my revolutionary coaching programs, you’ll be expertly guided to create  the healthy relationships you deserve! You’ll decide what you truly want and stop settling, self sacrificing, and struggling.  You’ll end all relationship confusion and never be blindsided again. No more one sided relationships where you feel all alone. It’s finally your turn to be loved the way you love others.


You'll stop repeating old patterns.

Here’s the truth: You’ve been who you’ve needed to be to survive, not who you truly are.

In my Recovery  Process you’ll learn my 8 different codependency personality patterns and identify the “role” you’ve been playing in your unhealthy relationship(s).

We’ll work side by side to uncover the REAL YOU. We’ll get rid of the masks you’ve been wearing and uncover your true power, radiating inside, waiting to be unleashed. We’ll create a vision for your life, the way you want it. Then, we’ll systematically remove any barriers along the way preventing you from having the life and relationships you truly deserve. The result is you get to Be authentically happy. No more faking it. Ever again.


Raise Your standards and never settle again

Toxic relationships teach you how to self-sacrifice, struggle to be seen and heard and tolerate the unthinkable. You lose your self-esteem and worth.

Together, we’ll eradicate any stories of unworthiness and rip them up by the root. You’ll know your true value and get the absolute clarity you need to make the RIGHT decision for you.

You'll heal and learn when and HOW to detach

You’ll participate in my revolutionary process called “The Rapid Detachment Method” that transforms pain into healing.

My students and clients find this process to be a miracle to them!

You’ll finally be able to make sense of the things that have happened, reframe them for your good and move on! Break up with what’s not working and never look back

Cultivate your most powerful self!

 You’ll have a framework to live by and as you practice the principles I teach you. You’ll grow in courage, self love, and authentic joy. 

Who are our programs best suited for?

If you are in a relationship that causes you anxiety, confusion, resentment, or pain AND you are otherwise a successful person, you’ll be a great fit! If  you’re successful at most everything else but relationships are your greatest area of struggle you’ll be a great candidate. The best way to be sure is to schedule a complimentary consultation.

About Heidi Rain

D. Div, MNLP, MCC, Addiction Professional, and Master Codependency Coach is the creator of Attachment Personality Patterns and the Rapid Detachment Method. Her books, courses, and programs specialize in codependency, self-love, dysfunctional/unhealthy relationships, and dealing with addiction in the family.  Her goal is to increase awareness of generational dysfunction through codependency education, fostering personal responsibility through masterful coaching, and affecting lasting change by breaking toxic patterns, ending the cycles of dysfunction for good.  To further the message, Heidi certifies coaches, therapists, and healers through her training and development company, Empowerment Coach University.


Coach Heidi  changed my life. I enrolled in the program after coming to the realization that some of my relationships were not healthy ones. I knew I was a good person with a good heart and couldn’t figure out why I kept drawing projects instead of partners. I consider myself an intelligent, professional kind, and loving woman but some of my relationships didn’t reflect who I was, and I couldn’t figure out why. I had to take a good look at myself. Heidi helped me realize because of my dysfunctional abusive childhood, I had become Codependent and had learned how to function in dysfunction. I learned in LYFE school that my personality attachment patterns were the people pleaser and the fixer. As a people pleaser I would sometimes say yes when I really wanted to say no. As the fixer I wanted to be the one that rescued. I was that Wonder Woman all for the sake of LOVE. Love that I was still seeking as a little girl from my mother. LYFE school helped me discover I am worthy of love without any extra, just being who I am is enough. I am enough and my value is priceless. I have learned through LYFE school how to set healthy boundaries and I have learned to see people for who they are regardless of their titles or labels.

I am FREE and I walk in my Freedom without any apologies, but most importantly I have learned how to Love and honor ME. 

Grateful for my Angel

Loria G


Heidi is a wizard at getting to the core of deep rooted issues and helping people navigate a path to self-love and acceptance by breaking unhealthy thoughts and behavior patterns. She was able to help me change my perspective in order for personal growth and I have since incorporated her curriculum into my own practice as a licensed clinical therapist.

Heidi was not only integral in my own treatment but I’ve witnessed her facilitate remarkable change in many people’s lives. Heidi is one of the most relatable life coaches and mentors I’ve ever been involved with and I am proud to call her my friend. Her expertise in relationships, self-worth/love and addictions combined with her personal experience and humor allow her to teach individuals how to truly redefine their belief systems and change dysfunctional thought patterns and behaviors which ultimately lead to lives of fulfillment.

As the director of an intensive co-occurring disorders program, Heidi has allowed me to be more comfortable in using my personal experience as a teaching tool and gain confidence as a leader. I often use her methods and teachings to promote discussion and I make a concerted effort to emulate her ease of connectedness in presentation style.

Heidi’s expertise combined with her ability to exercise change is brilliant and, in my opinion, unparalleled. Her efficacy is a true testament to the powerful work she does. Just ask any of her students.

Meagan Gaine


When I met Heidi I was in a horrible place. Dealing with a fiancé facing addiction and in rehab. She was the one person who would tell me like it was with no filter. She has taught me about co-dependency and learning how to break free from toxic relationships. At my lowest point, she was the hand that reached down to help me pull myself up. I cannot imagine where I would be today had I not met this most amazing soul. She is passionate about her wants to help others. And she is smart beyond her years. I truly feel that you have had to walk in the trenches to understand how to help pull others out. She is beyond one of the most intricate parts of my recovery and I value her as my coach, my confidant, and my friend.

Tammy Inge

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Additional Resources 

Love Coach Heidi Books

What's Wong With Me book

Explore codependency through the eyes of a child growing up in a dysfunctional and addicted home.

Meant to be a children’s book for adults, it’s the perfect companion for any recovering person, therapist, or treatment professional looking to open dialogue about the codependency traits stemming from the abuse.

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Visit the Empowerment Blog

Grab a cup of tea, a pen, journal, and Check out our Empowerment Blog for power-packed wisdom.

Empowerment Coach University

Coach Certification and Training

Are you a coach or looking to unleash your gifts to the world? Empowerment Coach University is our Personal Development company dedicated to equipping and empowering the next generation of superstar coaches, speakers, healers, and teachers.

Find Your Authentic Self, Fix  Your Relationships Challenges and Have the Love and Happiness you Deserve.

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Relationships with dysfunctional people steal your peace and leave you feeling confused, anxious, resentful and depressed. Don’t go another day putting everyone else’s needs before your own! It’s finally your turn! Book that consultation and let’s get moving on your journey back to your happiest, most authentic self.