Our 12 week LIVE Addiction in the Family Coaching Program helps people who are dealing with Addicts and Alcoholics get the answers they need NOW.

Should you stay or should you go?

Can a relationship with an addict ever work?

How do you help an addict?

Addiction in the family is maddening to say the least. When you love an addict, your whole world gets turned upside down as you try and figure out the best way to survive. Our 12 week LIVE Group Coaching experience is exactly what you need to get the information, tools, and and support you need NOW. 

Being in a relationship of any kind with an addict or alcoholic causes an emotional, physical, and psychological rollercoaster. It’s crucial that you have BOUNDARIES! My latest on demand master mini course lays the foundation of how to set and hold a boundary with an addict. You will get the exact step by step formula and the insight, wisdom, and guidance you need to set a boundary and FOLLOW THROUGH.


  • Why boundaries fail
  • Common boundary mistakes with an addict or alcoholic
  • How to get massive clarity around what you want, deserve, and are no longer    willing to tolerate.
  • How to communicate with clarity, empathy, and strength.
  • How to follow through
  • The exact language to use with an addict or alcoholic
  • How to stop being manipulated, gaslit, and guilted out of your boundaries
  • How to create a healthy, peaceful environment for you and your family.

When we say “addiction is a family disease” what we mean is, it effects everyone in the family.

Addicts and alcoholics believe that they are only affecting themselves, but in truth, no one is left untouched by it’s devastating impact.  

Our 12 week LIVE Coaching Program consists of 6 modules taught over the course of 12 weeks with plenty of time to answer all of your questions. We meet Tuesdays at Noon EST in a private online meeting.

You don’t need someone to admit they have a problem to join our Coaching Program. You will be given a world class education on how to help yourself and your loved one.

So, if another’s substance use is creating problems (financial, emotional, physical, psychological, spiritual, mental, environmental, social) it’s time to take some action. Usually, the healthiest person goes first. And that’s you.

You have more control than you think and peace of mind is 12 weeks away.

The coaching program consists of 6 Lessons over the course of 12 weeks with Q and A calls so you have plenty of time to ask all of your questions and get the answers you need now.

If you’re ready to start your journey to healing, wholeness and healthy relationships, check out our signature coaching program!

Seriously considering joining our program and receiving coaching?

Get your questions answered with our complimentary consultation.

Module 1: Understanding and implementing the concept of Detachment

We do not subscribe to the notion that one has to hit rock bottom to quit using.

We aslo do not believe in turning your back or other “tough love” models for recovery.

What we have learned as a result of working with thousands of addicts and alcoholics as well as their families for more than a decade, is that there are very specific things you can do to motivate someone to change,

AND there are very specific things you must learn to detach from if you’re going to get the results you want.

In this module, you’ll learn the 3 most important things you must detach from and exactly how to do that.

Module 2: Understanding the most advanced and newest Addiction Model

There are many myths and old ways of thinking about addiction that keep people stuck and sick.

In this module, you’ll learn what the best minds in the world have taught about addiction that creates the most effective environment for reccovery.

You’ll learn ecactly what recovery should look like (most get this totally wrong) and how to help hold your loved one accountable to change.

Module 3: Learn how to set and hold boundaries.

The truth is, addicts and alcoholics are always going to test limits, lie, and manipulate.

You need to learn the  most effective way to set and hold boundaries so that you can protect yourself and your family from future pain, disappointment and drama,

In this module, you’ll be given the exact boundary formula as well as the wording to help you effectively articulate your boundaries to others.

Most importantly, you’ll learn what your boundaries truly are.

Module 4: Learn how you and others have been impacted by addiction.

You can only solve a problem to your level of understanding. And this module will help you identify exactly how you have been impacted.

Many of us lose ourselves in the process of trying to fix and save others. This module will help you get your power back.

You’ll gain valuable insight into the specific behaviors you’ve been driven to and how they are hurting your ability to effect lasting change in your relationship.

Module 5: Learn what to do to get your loved one help.

If you want to help your loved one, you’re going to need to know the exact steps to take. In this module, I’ll teach you about the different paths to recovery.

You’ll learn what to do when your loved one shows signs of relapse. And what to do if relapse happens.

You’ll gain insider information about what works and what doesn’t.

Module 6: How to restore your relationship

So much damage has been done to your relationship. You’ll have many questions about how to rebuid trust and let go of the past. Over the course of the 12 weeks, there wll be plenty of time to answer these questions.

We’ll discuss how to repaur your relationship so you can restore your family.

Codependency coaching with Love Coach Heidi Rain McGuirk

Heidi Rain

Heidi Rain is a Master Practitioner of NLP, Addiction Professional and Master Certified Empowerment and Relationship Coach. She specializes in codependency, self-love, dysfunctional/unhealthy relationships, and dealing with addiction in the family.  She is co-creator of the Revolutionary Family Program and Love Yourself First Empowerment School.

It’s her passion to equip and certify those who want to help others through her Empowerment Coach University.

Heidi held an esteemed faculty position at one of the world’s leading drug and alcohol treatment centers where she created empowerment programming and facilitated psychoeducational lectures, seminars and group therapy. This experience with thousands of clients over many years, led to the creation of much of her life changing curriculum and proprietary methods.
Heidi blends her vast professional experience, world class education and personal experience to create exceptional results with her students and clients. She has a unique understanding and fresh perspective which helps her to truly get results with those she helps.

Her riveting style of using humor and candor encourages and inspires people to heal.